Dedicated to the memory of Kate

Kathryn Rose Mrdja, 57, passed March 31, 2019. Memorial service will be held May 9 at 7PM at All Souls Unitarian Church of Shreveport.

Born Betty Mrdja in Oklahoma on April 10, 1961, she graduated Centenary College in 1983. Kathryn was preceded in death by her parents, Bettie Jo and Rudolph, and survived by her sister Maria Mrdja, and a loving community of friends and writers worldwide. 

Kathryn had a big heart, and often said “I love you.” She meant it every time. Kathryn was passionate about words, animals, and music. A champion for women’s rights, she served as a board member for the Louisiana chapter of N.O.W. and petitioned for the Equal Rights Amendment. She spent time as a math tutor, choir director, case manager, portrait photographer, corporate trainer, and sign-language interpreter. She was eclectic, dependable, and generous.

A talented writer, Kate was also a meticulous editor and shared her time generously to help other writers. Doubtless she would have edited this obituary to be more concise, while still conveying our loss and love; we shall have to muddle on without her. Her sharp wit and sense of humor will be sorely missed. Her short stories and essays will keep her voice and spirit alive in our hearts and minds.

In lieu of flowers, donations to Port City Cat Rescue.

Please feel free to offer memories, stories, and more here.

A free online server has been set up for those who cannot make the memorial in person: 
https://discord.gg/JdMWWNy

A recording of the service made by friends is available here: http://bit.ly/katemrdja

 

 

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I keep running into the edges of Kate's absence, like an invisible bouncy castle was rudely inflated in my life without my permission. I reach for my phone to talk to her about a book I read to get her opinion, and then put it down again. I reach for my computer to email her a draft of a story I wrote and then stop and close the laptop. She wasn't in my life for long, but she was in my life in a big way, and a good way, and I miss her. I wish I had more words. Whenever I try to draft them, I reach for my phone to get her opinion, and bounce off that absence again. We're missing her together, and that's a little bit easier than doing it alone.
Cislyn
7th May 2019
Every time I try to write something here I end up deleting it before I hit "post". Because I keep thinking about what Kate would have to say about it. :) She had strong opinions and would go to the wall for them. She felt the same way about people. She had strong opinions about them, but the ones she liked, she was fiercely loyal and inspired the same from them. She was definitely loved by those of us lucky enough to get to know her, even if it was "just online". She would probably make fun of me if she knew how upset I am about this. But then she would be comforting and say exactly what I needed to hear... and then she'd probably make fun of me again. :) There is a "kathrynrose" sized hole in the universe and we are all less because she is gone... but greater for having the chance to have gotten to know her. Not sure that makes any sense. But she was used to me not making sense. I miss you Kate. - Gary/clauderainsrm
Gary
7th May 2019
Kate was also the audio editor for the Brevity Podcast - I loved working with her as she trimmed interviews and made me sound not like an idiot and our guests sound amazing. Most recently, we had an extended conversation on how we chose the pieces for the one-minute memoir episode, and what makes good flash nonfiction. You can hear it at SoundCloud - https://soundcloud.com/brevity-podcast/episode-10-one-minute-memoirs Love, Allison
allison
13th April 2019
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